Turning back to John Baker’s Stepping Out of Denial, I find him asking if I am starting to develop a support team. In addition to TL, B is a key part of my support team. I do have a few healthy social experiences in the context of being involved with my kids’ extracurricular activities and spending time with some of the other parents there. I also have our religious community. But TL and B are the only ones who know my personal struggles that we discuss in this blog. Frankly, TL and I had hoped one of the potential uses for a blog could be to find at least a few couples who are going through similar struggles and to form the beginning of a supportive community.